What should I know about group sex?
Group sex can be an exciting way to connect with multiple partners, whether at bathhouses, clubs, or private gatherings. It’s essential to prioritize your sexual health and well-being. Before meeting up, make sure you have what you need, which may include taking your HIV medications or PrEP beforehand, having DoxyPEP for after, or bringing condoms, lube, naloxone (to reverse opioid overdoses), and fentanyl testing strips for drug safety.
How can I ensure a pleasurable and safer experience during group sex?
Keeping things wet is crucial! Use plenty of lube and stay hydrated with water, especially if you’ve been drinking alcohol. Dehydration can lead to microtears, increasing the risk of STIs. During extended sessions, regularly check for any tears or abrasions on your body.
Is it important to exchange contact information after a hookup?
Yes! It can be helpful to exchange contact information in case anyone tests positive for an STI, COVID, or mpox. While anonymity can be part of the fun, having a way to communicate any positive results is important. You can text about positive results anonymously using resources like:
- TellYourPartner.org (U.S. and Canada)
- LetThemKnow.org.au (Australia)
- SXT (U.K.) – This tool is used by your healthcare provider.
What should I know about kink?
Kink can be a rewarding form of exploration, involving practices such as power dynamics, pain play, and water sports. To enhance your experience, explore what excites you. Check out Kynk 101 for comprehensive resources, how-to guides, and safety planning.
How do I ensure consent in kink activities?
Consent is fundamental in all sexual and kink practices. Have clear discussions about consent and boundaries before engaging in any scenes, ensuring that everyone is sober and attentive. The Love Tank offers a kink & consent guide to help navigate these crucial conversations.
How can I communicate my experience level in kink?
Be upfront about your experience level, regardless of your role. Certain kinks can have a higher likelihood of harm for those who lack experience. If you’re planning to play with someone new, consider having a video call or an in-person meeting to discuss desires and boundaries beforehand.
What is Chemsex/PNP, and how can I stay safe?
Chemsex/PNP refers to the use of drugs and alcohol during sex. If this is part of your sex life, it’s important to approach it with the knowledge to keep you and your partners as safe as possible. Our partners at Building Healthy Online Communities offer resources on safer use, chemsex, overdose prevention, and support for people looking to quit.