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68 Suck my cock now and I'll owe you one later.

69 Two guys sucking each other's cocks at the same time.

6 Pack Muscular stomach muscles.

+++ Strongly preferred. ie. Gigantic cocks are a+++.

< "Less than." ie. Seeking men <40 years old.

> "More than." ie. Seeking cocks >8"

420 Indicates a guy is into smoking marijuana.

ABS Adult Book Store, has porn for sale and can be a place to meet and have sex.

AC/DC Bisexual.

AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) An illness that attacks the immune system and can lead serious illness and/or death. You can get HIV or AIDS by the transfer of blood, semen (cum) and pre-ejaculate.

AVS Adult Video Store, has porn for sale and to view, can be a place to meet and have sex.

Accom Accommodate, meaning to host. IE - My wife is out of town, I can accom at my place.

Active The active participant (giver) in a sexual scene.

Amyl (Amyl Nitrite, Poppers) A drug (it usually comes in small bottles) that is inhaled through the nose to relax you and increase your pleasure. Often used during anal sex.

Age Play Sexual role play that involves pretending to be a different age than one's own.

Anal Generally refers to anal sex, getting fucked in the ass.

Anal Beads A sex toy resembling a beaded necklace that is inserted into the asshole for pleasure.

Anilingus Licking or stimulating the asshole with the mouth or tongue.

Aromantic Refers to individuals who experience little or no romantic attraction to others.

Asexual Refers individuals who don’t experience sexual attraction to others. Some asexual people do experience romantic attraction.

Ass Play Sexual activities involving the butt.

Attached Having a partner, spouse.

Autoerotic Asphyxiation The practice of limiting your oxygen supply while masturbating to achieve a more intense orgasm before you pass out.

Autofellatio The nearly superhuman talent of giving yourself a blowjob.

BDSM Can mean a variety of activities, including Bondage and Domination, Discipline and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. Sexual play where there is an acknowledged power dynamic between partners, where one partner is the dominant, and the other the submissive. Activities might include humiliation, restraint and inflicting pain, etc.

BF Boyfriend.

Ball Gag A sex toy that consists of a strap with a ball in the middle. The ball is placed in the mouth, and the straps fastened around the back of the head, rendering the wearer unable to talk or use his mouth.

Balls Testicles.

Ball Sack Scrotum, the bag of skin that contains the testicles.

Ball Stretcher A sex toy that is placed around a man's scrotum, above his balls, to stretch the scrotum and put weight on his balls for pleasure.

Bareback (BB, Raw Sex)To have anal sex without a condom, to ejaculate into a guys ass without protection.

Bathhouse (The Baths, The Tubs) A place where men meet for sex with other men. Often have single rooms or lockers for rent, steam rooms, saunas, video (porn) rooms, slings, or glory holes.

BBC Big Black Cock

Bear A gay man, with a stocky build usually having both body and facial hair.

Bearcub Someone who's between a bear and a cub.

Beat A cruising location, ie public toilet, park or other location where men meet for sex.

Behr Men with facial hair and a muscular/stocky build, but with little or no body hair.

Bi-curious Someone who has sex with the opposite sex, but is interested in or open to trying same-sex activities.

Bisexual Someone who has sex with both men and women.

Bloodsports Sexual play including blood, cutting or bloodletting.

Blowjob To suck a cock, provide oral stimulation to the penis with the mouth, tongue.

Blow n' go Getting a blowjob and leaving immediately after cumming.

Blue Balls Painful sensation when you've had a prolonged boner and haven't cum.

Blue Collar Refers to men who work in skilled trades, construction workers, electricians, carpenters, plumbers, etc.

Bluetooth A technology that allows people to exchange info or connect via electronic devices (cell phones, laptops etc) within small geographic areas.

Bondage Being tied up or restrained for sexual pleasure.

Boner Hard on, erection.

Booth Small room in adult sex venues such as Adult Video Stores, where one can enter and view porn. Generally, you have to deposit tokens (usually purchased at the front counter) to view porn.

Bottom Generally, someone who likes to receive anal sex.

Breath Play Reducing oxygen during sex to increase the intensity and sexual pleasure of orgasm.

Breeding Pumping a guy's ass full of cum without a condom.

Brown, Brownplay Sexual play involving feces (shit).

Bubble Butt A round, large ass. ie. I'm seeking a guy with a hot bubble butt.

Buddy Booth Found in adult sex venues such as Adult Video Stores, a booth that can either accommodate two men at once, or which has a sliding partition or window into the adjoining booth so both men can see and/or touch one another although they are in separate booths.

Bug Chaser A guy who deliberately has unprotected sex, often knowingly with guys who are HIV positive, in order to become infected with the virus.

Buggery Anal sex.

Bukkake Being ejaculated on by many men at the same time or in the same sexual interaction, being covered in cum by multiple guys.

Bust a Nut To cum.

Butch Masculine, straight acting and looking.

Butt Fucking Anal sex.

Butt Play Sexual activities involving the ass.

Butt Plug A sex toy that is inserted into the ass for sexual pleasure.

C2C Cam to Cam, meaning the exchanging of webcam feeds. ie. Looking to jack off with someone C2C. Or, cock to cock, as in rubbing cocks together for pleasure.

CBT, Cock and Ball Torture To bind or cause physical pain to the penis or testicles for sexual pleasure.

CD, CD/TV Cross dresser or cross dressing; dressing and acting in a style or manner traditionally associated with the opposite gender.

CPL Couple.

Cane A long, thin instrument used to hit a sexual partner and inflict physical pain for sexual pleasure.

Catching, Catcher Bottoming, someone who bottoms.

Catheterization Sexual play involving the insertion of a tube into the penis and urethra to control, prevent or induce urination. Can be used as part of control scenes in BDSM.

Chaps Often made of leather, leggings that can be worn over jeans or on bare skin, which zip up on the outside of both legs and don't have any covering over the ass or crotch.

Cherry Virginity, never having had anal sex. ie. Looking to get fucked for the first time and lose my cherry.

Chicken A young male, generally slim and smooth.

Chicken Hawk Someone (generally an older male) with a sexual preference for young men.

Chubb A stocky or heavy guy.

Cheese (Dick Cheese, Smegma )The substance that can gather under a guys foreskin, often having a strong smell and taste.

Chubby Chaser A person who prefers to have sex with larger guys.

Cialis, Cyalis A drug prescribed for erectile dysfunction, sometimes taken by gay men to improve and pro-long erections during sex.

Circumcised Cut, having had the foreskin of the penis removed.

Cis / Cisgender A term used to describe people who exclusive identify with the sex or gender they were assigned at birth

Clap Refers to the sexually transmitted disease Gonorrhea.

Cock Penis.

Cockring A small ring (leather, rubber, etc) that is placed at the base of the penis and/or around the testicles to prolong erections by containing blood flow.

Cocksnot Ejaculate, or pre-cum. ie. He was really leaking cocksnot.

Cock Worship The act of being sexually focused on the penis and everything related to it. IE -gagging on it, cleaning it with your mouth, tonguing and sucking the balls, drinking piss, swallowing sperm. Often performed by a sub or bottom.

Condom (Rubber, Wrap, Protection)A latex wrapper placed over the cock before sex to protect against sexually transmitted diseases.

Consensual Both (or all) parties agree to engage in acts during a sexual scene.

Cottage, Cottaging A UK term for a public toilet, for seeking sex with other men in public washrooms.

Couples Booth (Buddy Booth)In adult sex venues such as Adult Video Stores, a booth that can either accommodate two men at once, or which has a sliding partition or window into the adjoining booth so both men can see / touch one another although they are in separate booths.

Cristina (Crystal, Crank, Tina, Meth)Methamphetamine, a drug that acts as a stimulant and causes feelings of enhanced excitement and euphoria, sometimes used by men during sex to increase pleasure. Considered to be highly addictive.

Crop (Riding Crop)A whip-like tool used to hit a sexual partner and inflict pain for sexual pleasure.

Crossdresser Someone who enjoys dressing as the opposite gender.

Cruising The act of seeking sex (usually anonymous) with men in public areas.

CubA young bear.

Cuckold Someone who is married and enjoys his wife having sex with other men. He may watch, or want to join in with them as they fuck.

Cum/Come The act of ejaculating, or referring to the semen itself. ie. I am going to cum, I love to eat cum.

Cum Control The act of controlling or delaying ejaculation, either as part of a control scene in BDSM or to extend sexual pleasure.

Cum Dump Someone who likes to receive many loads of cum in/on them simultaneously or in the same sexual scene. Can also refer to someone who receives unprotected anal sex.

Cum Eating Swallowing someone else's cum.

Cumshot A burst of ejaculation.

Cum Slut A guy who loves to drink large amounts of ejaculate.

Cum Swap The exchange of cum from one partner to another.

Cut Circumcised, having had the foreskin of the penis removed.

Cybersex Engaging in sexual play online.

DDF Drug and disease free, someone who doesn't use drugs and has no sexually transmitted diseases.

DF Can mean drug free, or disease free.

DL Down low.

DP double penetration, being fucked with two cocks in your ass at once.

DT Downtown.

DTE Down to earth.

Daddy A man, generally older, who prefers to play the role of a father figure in sexual scenes.

Daddy/boy A sexual scene that involves someone playing an older father figure, and someone playing a younger or more inexperienced male, such as a son or nephew.

Daisy Chain A group of three or more having sex, usually oral, with each guy sucking the next in the chain, and the last guy sucking the first.

Darkroom A special area in sex venues such as bathhouses where there is minimal light, where men gather to have sex, usually anonymous.

Deep Throat The act of sucking a cock until it is completely engulfed in your mouth/throat, and your lips have reached the base of the penis.

Demisexual Refers to individuals who only experience sexual attraction under specific circumstances, such as after building strong romantic or emotional relationships with a person.

Dick Penis, cock.

Dick Cheese (Cheese, Smegma) The substance that can gather under a guy's foreskin, often having a strong smell and taste.

Dildo A sex toy, usually cock shaped, used for sexual penetration.

Dirty Sanchez The act of smearing shit under a guys nose in the form of a mustache after fingering his ass. Or making a guy smell your finger after it's been in his ass.

Discreet A person who doesn't want to publicly show signs of a sexual interaction either because they're still in the closet, in a monogamous relationship or any other reasons.

Docking Where one uncut partner wraps his foreskin around the head of his partner's cock, and masturbates them together.

Doggie Style Fucking from behind, one partner is generally on all fours with his ass in the air, the other partner mounts him from behind.

Dogging A UK term for having sex in public, usually applies to straight couples that hook up for sex in public places.

Dom Someone who enjoys topping sexual partners. ie. I'm a dom looking for submissives.

Domination The act of topping someone for the purposes of sexual gratification.

Double Penetration, DP, Double Stuff, Double Fuck Two guys (two cocks) penetrate one guy's ass at the same time, so the bottom is fucked with two cocks at once.

Down Low A term that refers to the practice, generally within the black male community, of having sex with men in secret while otherwise living a typically straight life.

DTF Down To Fuck.

Drag Dressing in clothes traditional to the opposite gender.

Drag Queen A man who dresses up as a woman and performs, often singing, dancing or lip-synching.

Dry Sometimes refers to someone who has had a vasectomy.

ED Erectile dysfunction, a medical problem causing the inability to have or maintain an erection.

Eater The person who gives oral, and generally swallows his partner's load.

Edge Play, Edging A sadomasochist experience of exploring and pushing sexual boundaries, or the act of repeatedly getting close to cumming but holding off for periods of time.

Ejaculate Cum, jizz, semen.

Enema Inserting liquid into the rectum via the anus. Generally used to clean the ass prior to anal sex, or to stimulate / enhance anal pleasure.

Erection A hard-on, having an erect penis.

Escort A guy who provides sexual services for money.

Exhibitionist, Exhibitionism One who derives sexual pleasure from performing sexual acts for others to view, the act of doing the same.

FMF, FFM - Female/Male/Female, Female/Female/Male - a threesome involving two women and one man.

FS Foreskin.

FtM, F2M trans guy, trans man; female to male transgender or transsexual person (assigned female at birth, identifies as male some or all of the time). FtMs may or may not be on hormones &/or have had surgery.

Face Fucking The act of thrusting your cock into a partner's mouth, often forcefully.

Facial The act of blowing your load on someone else's face, or having a partner blow their load on your face.

Feeder A guy who gets a blowjob and shoots his load into his partner's mouth.

Felch, Felching The act of eating, licking, sucking cum out of someone's ass.

Fellate To provide oral sex to a partner.

Fellatio Oral sex, blowjob.

Fem, Femme A man who has feminine attributes, either acts or dresses in an effeminate manner.

Feminization The act, sometimes forced, of dressing in typically female clothing and acting in a feminine manner.

Faggot A guy who has sex with or is attracted to other men.

Fetish A sexual fixation/obsession with a specific act, body part, type of person, etc.

Figging Sticking a peeled piece of ginger up your ass to produce a burning sensation and increase sexual excitement.

Finger Digital stimulation, to fuck someone's ass with your fingers.

Fist The act of gradually inserting your hand into a guy's ass, and then forming a fist.

Flaccid A non-erect penis.

Flip-Fuck To alternate having the active role when fucking.

Flogger A whip-like instrument used to hit a partner for sexual gratification.

Fluffer A guy, generally in a porn shoot or strip club, who provides sexual stimulation for the actors before they perform.

Foot Fetish Someone who has a sexual attraction/fixation for feet.

Foot Job Stimulating your partner's cock with your feet.

Forced Milking To force a guy to ejaculate repeatedly.

Foreskin A layer of skin that covers the head of the penis. If someone has their foreskin intact, they are generally referred to as 'uncut.'

Frottage, Frot The act of rubbing body parts together in a non-penetrative way.

Fuck to have penetrative sex, IE - I fucked his ass, I fucked his face.

Fuck Buddy Someone you hook up with on a regular basis for sex, but are not in a relationship with.

Furry A guy who has a lot of body hair or who enjoys dressing up/envisioning himself as an animal while having sex.

FWB Friend With Benefits.

GL Good looking.

Gag Something placed in/over the mouth to prevent it's use during a sexual scene, or the act of choking on cock when it hits the gag reflex in your throat.

Game Players Someone who flirts and makes plans on-line or in person, but doesn't intend to actually meet for sex. IE - I'm not into time wasters or game players.

Gangbang A group of guys who all take turns fucking one person.

Gay Someone who has sex with someone of the same sex.

Gay Sauna A public sauna where men meet each other for sex.

Glans The tip, or head, of the penis.

Glory Hole A hole cut into a wall that is large enough to fit your cock through, usually between two bathroom stalls, booths, etc. Used for anonymous sex, one guy sticks his cock through the hole; the guy on the other side sucks it. Can also be used for rimming and fucking.

Go Down To perform oral sex. IE - How about you go down on me now?

Golden Shower Urinating on a partner, or being urinated on, for sexual pleasure.

Gonorrhea (Clap)A sexually transmitted disease.

Go-T Goatee, having facial hair on one's chin.

Greek Anal sex.

Grizzly A bigger, taller, slightly older, really hairy guy.

Group sex A number of people who all have sex together at the same time.

Gym Bunny A gay man who spends a lot of time working out at the gym.

HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) The virus that causes Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS), an illness that attacks the immune system and can lead serious illness and/or death. You can get HIV or AIDS by the transfer of blood, semen (cum) and pre-ejaculate.

HIV-, NegSomeone who is HIV negative, who does not have HIV.

HIV+, PozSomeone who is HIV positive, who does have HIV.

HWP Height and weight proportionate.

Half and half Paying someone for both oral and anal sex in the same session.

Half Mast Having a semi-hard on.

Handballing Another term for fisting.

Handcuffed Being in the middle while one guy fucks your mouth, and another guy fucks your ass, or being restrained by the wrist during sex.

Hand Job Jerking a guy off, stroking his cock with your hand.

Hanky Code A series of colour coded handkerchiefs, generally worn in the back pants pocket, to indicate to others what sexual scenes you are into.

Hard Having an erection.

Hardcore Intense, extreme, graphic, raunchy, etc.

Hard On An erect cock.

Head Oral sex, blowjob. IE - I give great head.

Head JobOral sex.

Heterosexual, Hetero, Het Someone who has sex primarily with the opposite sex.

Hole Usually refers to ass, anus but can also be mouth. IE Fuck my hole.

Homosexual, Homo Someone who has sex primarily with the same sex.

Horny Very sexually excited.

Horse Hung Above average cock size.

Host Have someone over to your place for sex i.e. "I can host".

Humiliation The act of embarrassing or shaming a sexual partner for pleasure.

Hummer Oral sex.

Hung Well endowed, having a large cock. IE - I'm really well hung.

Hustler Escort, someone who has sex in exchange for money.

ISO Is Seeking Out, IE - Good looking guy ISO other good-looking guys.

Impotence The inability to get or maintain an erection.

Incest Sex between people within the same family.

Intercourse Fucking, penetration (anal).

Interracial A coupling of two people from different racial backgrounds.

Intersex An umbrella term that refers to bodies that fall outside of the strict male/female binary.

Jack off, Jerk off, JO Masturbate, stroke your own cock with your hands.

Jizz, Jism Cum, ejaculate.

JO Buddy A guy you regularly jack off with.

Jock An athletic, muscular or well-built guy, or short for jockstrap.

Jockstrap A covering for the cock and balls, has two leg straps and leaves the butt exposed.

Kink, Kinky Sexual preferences or behaviours that are considered to be 'out of the ordinary.

LTR Long-term relationship.

Levitra A drug prescribed for erectile dysfunction, sometimes taken by gay men to improve and pro-long erections during sexual encounters.

Libido Sex drive. IE - he had a very high libido.

Load Cum, ejaculate.

Lube, Lubricant A liquid applied to the cock and ass before anal or other sex to reduce friction and make penetration easier, safer and more comfortable.

Lucky Pierre Fucking someone in the ass, and getting fucked in the ass at the same time. Lucky Pierre is the guy in the middle of a three-way.

M2M, M4M Male to Male, Male for Male.

M8 Mate, buddy, friend.

MF Male/female, as in a male/female couple.

MM Married man.

MO Mutual Oral, when two partners provide oral to each other not necessarily at the exact same time.

MtF, M2F trans woman; male to female transgender or transsexual person (assigned male at birth, identifies as female some or all of the time). MtFs may or may not be on hormones &/or have had surgery.

Masc, Masculine A gay man whose lifestyle resembles one of a straight man.

Masochist, Masochism The sexual enjoyment of pain, torture, abuse etc.

Masseur Someone who provides massage services for a fee, may or may not include erotic services.

Master Dominant man in a BDSM scene or relationship, the top or dom.

Masturbate Jerk off, stimulate the penis with your hands.

Menage a trois Sex between three people.

Milking Jerking/fucking a guy until he squirts every last drop of cum, can include the forced ejaculation caused by stimulating the prostate.

Missionary Position The sexual position where one guy (or woman) lies on their back and the other person lies on top and fucks them.

Money Shot Cum shot, generally a porn term, the scene where the porn star shoots his load is referred to as the ""money shot.""

Muscle Bottom A jock/built guy who likes to take it up the ass.

Muscle Mary A guy who is really into his own physique.

Mutual Masturbation When two (or more) guys jerk each other off.

NGI Not gay identified.

NRR No reciprocation required, when someone wants to suck you off or please you without expecting you to do anything in return.

NS No strings, sex without any obligation or expectations. IE - Seeking NS sex.

NSA No strings attached, sex without any obligation or expectations. IE - Seeking NSA sex.

Naturist, Naturism Someone who enjoys being nude; the enjoyment of being nude.

No recip No reciprocation required, when someone wants to suck you off or please you without expecting you to do anything in return.

Nocturnal Emissions Wet dreams, ejaculating in your sleep.

Nonoxynol-9 A spermicide that was once used heavily in contraceptives to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. It is now believed to increase risk because it can weaken latex condoms.

Novice, Newbie Someone who's new to the scene.

Nude Beach A public beach where clothing isn't worn, frequently a cruising spot.

Nude Nudist A nudist who has no body hair.

Nymphomaniac Someone who is obsessed with or consumed by sex.

OTR Over the road, IE - long distance trucker.

Open Minded Willing to try things that are 'out of the ordinary'.

Open Relationship A couple who is in a relationship with one another, but have sex with others outside of the relationship.

Oral Sex Stimulating the penis with the mouth, lips, tongue, throat etc.

Orgasm To climax, cum.

Orgy A sex party, sex involving lots of guys at once.

Organ Penis, cock.

Otter A very hairy guy with a small build, much smaller than a bear.

PA Prince Albert; piercing in the head of the penis.

Pansexual Refers to individuals who can experience sexual or romantic attraction to any person, regardless of gender or sex.

PNP (Party N' Play) - Using drugs and having sex at the same time.

PP Pissplay.

PPRS See 'poppers'.

Papi a sexy Latino or Black man, Spanish for Daddy.

Party And Play - See 'PNP'.

Passable A term used to describe how convincingly cross dressers, transvestites etc. can 'pass' or appear as the opposite sex. IE - I'm a very passable shemale.

Passive The receptive partner during sex, a guy who prefers to be topped.

Pearl Necklace Ejaculating on the chest or neck.

Penetration When a cock enters a guy's asshole.

Penis Dick, cock.

PEP Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) is a method used to help prevent HIV transmission in an HIV-negative person who may have been recently exposed to the virus. PEP is not 100% effective, and must be started shortly after exposure to HIV.

Phone Sex Engaging in sexual chat over the phone, often while one or both people jack off.

Pig A gay man who frequently indulges in hardcore, raunchy, often bareback hard-core sex.

Pig Play Extremely raunchy, hardcore sexual action involving sweat, shit, spit, piss, etc.

Pissplay (Watersports, PP) Getting sexual pleasure from urinating on a partner, or being urinated on in a sexual scene.

Pitching, Pitcher Topping, someone who tops.

Play A sexual scene; or getting together for sex. IE - looking for SM play; or looking to play this morning.

Polar Bear A big hairy guy whose fur has turned white or gray.

Polyamorous Having more than one relationship at a time, with all parties aware and consenting to being involved.

Poppers (Amyl, amyl nitrite, PPRS) A drug (it usually comes in small bottles) that is inhaled through the nose to relax you and increase your pleasure. Often used during anal sex.

Porn Films, videos, images, etc. of sexually explicit acts for the purpose of viewing for sexual pleasure.

Power Bottom A dominant bottom. Someone who likes to be in control while receiving anal sex.

Pre-cum Clear fluid secreted from the cock when a guy is sexually aroused, before orgasm/ejaculation. Is generally thought to lubricate the movement of the penis. Pre-cum amounts can vary greatly from guy to guy.

Poz HIV positive.

PrEP Pre-exposure prophylaxis - pills taken to prevent HIV.

Premature Ejaculation A lack of control over orgasm, when a guy ejaculates quickly during sex, or before he or his partner want him to.

Priapism A hard cock that does not go soft for over 4 hours. Can often be painful and medically dangerous.

Prince Albert PA; piercing in the head of the penis.

Prostate A gland in the male asshole that can be very pleasurable when massaged or stimulated during fucking.

Pump, Pumping A cylinder placed over the penis, attached to a pump that creates suction within the cylinder, used by men who want to enlarge the size of their cock. Can also mean, the act of thrusting your cock.

Pud Cock, dick.

Puppy Play Behaving and being treated like a puppy. Usually occurs in sexual role-play scenarios.

Queer An umbrella term for anyone who is not totally straight or heterosexual.

Quickie Sex with the purpose of cumming quickly without foreplay.

RR Reciprocation required.

RACK Risk Aware Consensual Kink, all involved parties are aware of any potential risks of their sexual interactions and agree to participate.

Raw, Raw Sex Raunchy and/or bareback, usually refers to unprotected fucking.

Red Any sex play involving blood.

Reach around When someone is fucking your ass and reaches in front to stroke your cock at the same time.

Reciprocation, Recip Repayment of a sexual act.

Rentboy A guy who provides sexual favours for money.

Restraints Any device used to confine someone. Usually cuffs or anklets used for BDSM play.

Rimming Eating/licking ass.

Role Play Dressing up, or pretending to be someone else during sex.

Rough Trade A butch, working class guy who has sex with other guys for money.

Rubber A condom.

Rusty Trombone When someone rims your ass and reaches around to stroke your cock at the same time.

SM Sadism and Masochism. Sexual play involving pain and/or torture for pleasure.

SP, S&P Salt and pepper, having mixed dark and grey hair.

SSC Safe, sane, consensual.

STD Sexually transmitted disease.

STI Sexually transmitted infection.

Str8 (Straight) Heterosexual.

Sadism Getting pleasure, sometimes sexual, from inflicting pain.

Sadist A guy who enjoys sadism. See above.

Safe Word A code word, other than 'no', used in BDSM scenes to end the scene.

Safer Sex A sexual exchange where precautions are taken to protect the health of participants.

SantorumThat frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the by-product of anal sex.

Sauna A steam room often used for cruising. Usually found in gyms and health clubs. "Going to the sauna" generally means going to a men's or gay establishment of which the steamroom is only a small part, a pretext.

Scally A UK term for a guy who is uneducated and working class. Also can be used to describe something unclean or dirty.

Scarfing Tying something like a scarf around the neck to restrict blood flow and increase the sensation of masturbation.

Scat Shit, feces.

Scrotum Ball sack.

Scuba A sexual position where a guy sits on another guys face, puts his butt cheeks over the eye sockets, and his balls in the other guy's mouth.

Seal A hairy, skinny guy.

Seed, Seeding Sperm, breeding, bareback.

Semen Cum, jizz, sperm.

Semi, Semi Hardon Partially erect dick.

Sensation Play A form of sexual play, often in BDSM, that explores touch. May involve, tickling, the use of silk, feathers, etc.

Sex Any sensual activity, or the categories female and male.

Sex toys Any equipment or accessories designed to make sexual play more interesting or pleasurable.

Shaft The long, pole-like part of a cock.

Shemale A woman who socially presents as a woman and also has a cock.

Shoot Ejaculate, cum.

Shrimping Toe sucking, or sucking freshly deposited cum out of a guy's ass.

Sissy An unapologetically effeminate gay man.

Size Queen Attracted to and enamored by large cocks.

Sixty-nine (69) Two guys sucking each other's cocks at the same time.

Skull Fuck The act of forcefully thrusting your cock into a partner's mouth while grabbing his head.

Slave BDSM term for bottom or sub.

Sling A swing, often made of leather, suspended from the ceiling with chains or rope. Used for sexual pleasure.

Slurpramp A structure for standing on which is designed to elevate a guy so that his dick is at mouth level, and other guys can walk up and suck him off.

Smegma The substance that can gather under a guy's foreskin, often having a strong smell and taste.

Smoothie Someone with no pubic hair.

Snowball After you cum in a guy's mouth, he kisses you and deposits your wad in your mouth.

Sodomy Anal sex.

Solo To masturbate.

Sounds, Sounding Stainless steel tubes designed to be inserted in a guy's urethra for pleasure or pain.

Spanking Slapping a guy's ass with your open hand.

Spit Roasted Being face fucked and ass fucked at the same time.

Sploshing the act of eating food off of or out of body parts.

Spunk Cum, jizz.

Stats Statistics comprised of age, weight, cock size, eye colour, etc.

Steam Room A high humidity room usually found in health clubs or sports facilities. Can be a good place to cruise.

Straight Heterosexual.

Straight Looking / Acting Masculine, macho, not effeminate. A guy who does not in any way appear to be gay.

Strap on A harness and plastic cock that can be used for penetration.

Submissive, sub A guy who gives over his desires and his body to another in BDSM play. Can be a slave or a bottom.

Swallow To ingest cum. Not to spit it out after a guy cums in your mouth.

Switch. Switch hitter Can mean any of the following: guy who is willing to be a dom or a sub; a bottom or a top; fuck or get fucked. Can also refer to a guy who will have sex with either men or women.

TasP Treatment as Prevention. You have HIV but are undetectable and can’t transmit the virus.

TasP and condoms Treatment as Prevention and condoms. HIV untransmittable and using condoms to prevent other STIs.

TF Tag Fucking, one top takes turns fucking more than one bottom, or vice versa, many tops take turns fucking one bottom.

TT Tit torture.

Taint The spot between a guy's asshole and his balls.

Teabagging Lowering your balls into a guy's mouth.

Tea Room A toilet or change room where guys cruise for sex.

Threesome, 3some, 3-way A group of three people having sex together.

Tokens Special coins you purchase at an Adult Video/Book Store or Arcade. Usually you are required to deposit them inside the booths in order to view porn.

Top A guy who likes to fuck other guys rather than be fucked.

Tossing the salad Rimming someone while reaching around to jerk them off.

Train A group of guys waiting in line to have sex with one guy, or, a group of guys fucking simultaneously, one guy fucks the guy in front of him, while he fucks the guy in front of him, and so on.

Transgender, Trans A broad term that refers to people who don't conform to gender norms.

Transsexual A person who identifies as the opposite gender to the one given to them at birth.

Transvestite, TV A cross dresser, a person who dresses and acts in a style or manner traditionally associated with the opposite gender.

Trans fag an FtM who's into guys.

Trans guy, Trans man FtM, F2M; female to male transgender or transsexual person (assigned female at birth, identifies as male some or all of the time). FtMs may or may not be on hormones &/or have had surgery.

Trans woman MtF, M2F; male to female transgender or transsexual person (assigned male at birth, identifies as female some or all of the time). MtFs may or may not be on hormones &/or have had surgery.

Troll A guy who deliberately posts a controversial or inciting message on a message board for the purpose of creating conflict. Also, a very persistent, usually unappealing guy who's out looking for action and can't take no for an answer.

Tuck, tucked When the penis and testes are pushed back through the legs, this can give the impression of female genitalia.

Turkey Slap, "The Turkey" Slapping a man in the face with your cock.

Twink A boyish looking younger gay man.

Two-Spirit An umbrella term used by some Indigenous people to describe their sexual, gender or spiritual identity.

U=U Undetectable = Untransmittable (Or, U=U for short) refers to people with HIV who have achieved and maintained an undetectable viral load so that the virus cannot be passed on to others during sex.

UB2 You be too. ie. I'm hung like a horse, you be too.

UC Uncut.

UP Urethral Play, inserting objects into the piss slit of the cock for pleasure.

Uncut Uncircumcised, a guy with his foreskin intact.

Under the Stall Action Sexual activity in a public bathroom that occurs between guys in separate stalls, they bend and reach below the bathroom-stall wall.

Undetectable An undetectable viral load means that the level of HIV in a person’s blood is so low that it does not show up on a viral load test. HIV can still be present in the body, but the amount is so low that it cannot be passed on to others during sex.

Unload Shoot your wad, cum.

Urethral Play, UP inserting objects into the piss slit of the cock for pleasure.

VD Venereal Disease

VGL Very good looking.

V-Safe Very safe, IE Always play V-safe.

Vanilla Conventional, traditional sexual activities, the opposite of kinky.

Vasectomy A medical procedure that prevents sperm from leaving the body through the penis.

Versatile, VS, VST A guy who can bottom or top.

Viagra A drug used to treat erectile dysfunction.

Vibrator A sex toy used for pleasure.

Video Room A room in a bathhouse or sauna where you can watch porn.

Virgin Someone who's never had sex.

Voyeur A guy who is sexually stimulated by watching others.

WH Well hung.

Wad Load, one ejaculation

Wank Jerk, stroke, masturbate.

Watersports Sexual play involving piss.

Well hung Has a big cock.

Whore Slut, someone who has a lot of sex or who charges for sex

Wired High, a term for someone who is on drugs

Wolf A very aggressive and dominant otter.

Woof A term used to describe someone as sexy/attractive.

Woody Hard-on, erection.

X-Rated Lewd, obscene or pornographic.

XXX A rating that means very explicit or pornographic.

YO Younger/Older, intergenerational play.

Yellow Any sex play involving pissing, urine.

Yiff Any kind of affection or physical contact between 'furry' guys.

Z Bag Slapping your testicles on the back of someone's head.